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Imagine this …
Youâre at a local flea market when you spot a beautiful armchair in the distance.
You recently redecorated your living room and need a perfect chair to finish the look, so you hurry over to inspect it more closely.Â
At first glance, you like it a lot. You run your fingers along the upholstery and itâs soft to the touch.
The vendor smiles and says, âGo ahead. Sit down and see how it fits,â so you do.
The chair is really comfortable. You can already picture yourself curled up by the fireplace reading a book.Â
âHow much?â you ask.
â$300,â the vendor replies.
Thatâs a little more than youâd planned to spend. Youâre still sitting in the chair contemplating whether or not to buy when another shopper walks up to admire the chair.
âWhat a lovely armchair,â she says. âAre you taking it?â
âIâm not sure yet,â you say.
âCan I try it out?â she asks, motioning towards the chair.
How do you feel at that moment?
In today’s edition of Why We Buy, we’re exploring Perceived Ownership – why weâre more likely to buy a product after weâve developed a sense of ownership over it.
Let’s get into it.
đ§ The Psychology of Perceived OwnershipÂ
Studies show that when we own something we place a higher value on it than similar products that we donât own. This is known as the Endowment Effect, which weâll explore in a future newsletter.
But interestingly, even the perception of ownership has powerful psychological effects. Once we feel a sense of ownership over a product, we donât want to lose it and are more likely to buy it.
đ§ Inside Your Buyer’s MindÂ
If you want to see perceived ownership in action, go to a daycare and watch how children play with toys.
A little boy is playing with a train. He puts it down and grabs an action figure. But what happens when a girl comes along and picks up the train? The boy screams, âMINE!!â and rushes to take the toy back.
While most of us donât want to admit it, weâre driven by irrational emotionsâjust like toddlers. Once we perceive something as our own and get a sense for what owning it might feel like, we donât want to give it up. This can drive buyers to commit to purchasing a product that they otherwise wouldnât have.
Why do you think Apple encourages shoppers to play with all their products in the showroom? Because they know that playing with a product creates a sense of ownership. And perceived ownership drives sales.

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đ¤ How To Apply ThisÂ
Alright, so how can we apply this right now to sell more?
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Encourage Touching
If possible, find ways to allow customers to touch and experience your products in real life. The mere act of touching an object drives increased sales. Encouraging touch is known as âhaptic marketingâ and itâs powerful. You could organize a pop-up shop, rent a booth at a conference, or design packaging that encourages touch.
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Let People Try Before They Buy
Consider offering a free trial, giving samples, or offering hassle-free returns. It doesnât matter if you sell software, make-up, or carsâfinding creative ways to let people try your product before buying drives sales. For instance, some car dealerships now offer overnight test drives. They know that spending a few days driving a new car increases perceived ownership, making it harder for buyers to go back to their old car.
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Help Them Visualize Owning It
If you canât get your product in your buyerâs hands, you can still help them to visualize what it would be like to own it. The simplest way to do this is through great copywriting that really paints a picture of what ownership feels like. Or you could go high-tech like Warby Parker, the DTC eyeglasses giant, and use augmented reality to allow shoppers to âvirtually try-onâ your product.

đĽ The Short of ItÂ
Encouraging buyers to feel a sense of ownership over your product will increase the chance of them buying it. There are lots of creative ways to action this in your marketing… so grab a coffee and a notebook and start brainstorming.
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